Today is April 4, 2013, I'm 9 days away from my birthday & I feel great! What's really awesome is that the jerk contacted me via email on yesterday evening, asking me to help him write one of his papers (that's due on Tuesday!) ... I had a feeling that he would resurface, and wouldn't you know it... The bastard pops his weaselly head up again once more...
Well, things have changed... I have a better understanding of where I went wrong, and how to take a detour from that pile of emotional bullshit...
Although I have forgiven him & feel no animosity towards him, I did confront him via email about why I am no longer in contact with him.
1. He accused me of harrassing him. (Which is Absolute Bullshit. He didn't want to pay for the assistance that I provided so therefore, being a police recruit, process server, and skip tracer, he decided to hand me a subtle threat, which is cool, because I was getting tired of jumping through hoops to be paid.)
2. He insinuated that I was crazy. (I'm totally calling Bullshit on this).
3. He played with my affections. (He flirted with me for the sole purpose of receiving assistance to write his papers & just to get his rocks off. Yes folks, he's one Kinky monkey).
4. He cheated me out of $75 for a paper that he was supposed to have paid me for. (Refer to reason #1. I forgave him, because if I hadn't, I would gotten so bitter that I would have fucked him up royally online & at school)
I felt that by confronting him in regards to these issues, that he would have gotten the message, but it's obvious to me that either he believes that I'm desperate & stupid, and/or he doesn't believe that his shit stinks.
I tried to be nice, I really did. What really amazes me is that after I let him know that I was busy with my own schoolwork, he still manages to beg me to help, like I OWE him. Seriously?!!!
This man has a girlfriend, I don't know how serious things are, but there is some sort of a relationship going on with the mysterious Costa Rican Chica....(although offering to pay me with a Dooney & Burke purse has left me wondering if things are rocky in paradise).
Ok, so getting back to the paper, etc... I decided to charge him $20/page, just so I could have some extra change. He said that he can only pay $50 for a 5 page paper. So then, I let him know that $50 was not enough. That I was methodical about writing, and that my skill was worth more than than. I also mentioned (previously) that he doesn't respect me nor does he value my skills.
After he gave his passive-aggressive response of Ok,etc... I gave him 3 links to sites where he could have someone write his papers for a price. Not only that, but I wished him well while he was in San Antonio, and for him to be safe.
At this point in time, I feel so good because I changed how I interacted with him. Instead of being pissy and reacting, I chose to be peaceable and respond to his emails.
Even though he acts like a nice person, he's still a manipulative and not to mention, seductive, Narcissist, and personally, I no longer have time for his Bullshit.
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